I suspect some of that will be keeping JON away from HIM as well, won't it?
I wonder if it might be helpful to separately come to him with concerns about the issue......though I can also just see him getting grumpy and defensive about it.
That sounds like an accurate explanation. I appreciate that he has the urge to do good. I just wish his guilt didn't push him to give so much of himself away.
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I wonder if it might be helpful to separately come to him with concerns about the issue......though I can also just see him getting grumpy and defensive about it.
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[He hates that that probably is the case. That he'll have to work to keep Jon away from Jonah fucking Magnus.]
He knows my feelings about Elias. I mean, at home we were sort of on a quest to kill him.
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[A bit of a conversational detour, but he really does enjoy finding that out. Good. Elias deserves it, if they can pull it off.]
Still, I suppose I meant reminding him that if he goes to Elias willingly, he's not just hurting himself.
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[Maybe it will just make martin feel a bit better?]
Reminders are a good idea. He knows things can't go well if he's around Elias. Or he should.
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'Should' being the operative word.
[He loves Jon, but.....]
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Yeah. He's not good at that.
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I don't suppose you have any pointers on getting him to try?
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He was a bit better when we were in Scotland. I think because for a little bit of time there wasn't anything he felt like he had to fix or solve.
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I appreciate that he has the urge to do good. I just wish his guilt didn't push him to give so much of himself away.
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